Sunday, in many parts of the United States was the start of Daylight Saving Time. A ridiculous practice in which we pretend it’s daylight longer by rolling our clocks forward.
I am exhausted and underwhelmed to have lost an hour of sleep.
I know that for people with children or pets or sleeping disorders, it can be harder. They’re not able to understand why we’re getting up earlier.
I console myself with the knowledge that I’ll get that hour back, come late fall.
But, all too often, we give away our writing time, without a government mandated clock adjustment.
This is going to be a ‘do what I say, and not as I do’ sort of post, that’s inspirational for me. I hope you find it a little inspiring, though.
When it comes down to it, all writers can categorize their time spent not writing into two types:
1. Intentional Time Spent Not Writing
We all have obligations and lives outside of our writing. Mouths to feed, chores to do, loved ones to support and cherise. Not to mention, many of us have day jobs — be they paid or unpaid. And all of those things deserve (or should deserve) our undivided attention.
And if you’re me? You probably want to fit some sleep in there. And contemplate exercising.
Plus, we all need downtime. Being 100%, all the time, is exhausting. Scheduling 100% of your time is going to lead you to be checked out, whenever you can get away with it. Schedule in the things that motivate you or refresh you. TV binge watching, marathon training, book reading, long walks on pretty spring days.
Whatever brings you joy and helps lower your stress level.
2. Unintentional Time Spent Not Writing
These are the time sucks. When you’re free to write, and you go to sit down to write, but instead end up on social media. Or watching three hours of Tiny House videos, or downloading some sort of tetris game, where the lines of blocks just slide sideways, and playing til you hit level 19…
These are just random examples off the top of my head, I don’t know what sort of things you people are into.
I wanted to call it stolen time, but that time isn’t stolen, you’ve just given it away. And then it’s 11:30 pm and you’re just starting your weekly blog post, and you still owe a beta reader some feedback. (But, at least your latest chapters are with your mentor, so at least she’s not waiting on you.)
If you’re not careful, you can lose all your writing time, in the blink of an eye.
For those of us without agents, we create our own schedules and goals, and we’re the only ones holding ourselves accountable.
Is the extra downtime puttering worth it?
I usually say that, unlike exercise or people, if you don’t have time for your writing or it’s not bringing you joy, you can always put it away for a few months… or decades, and it’ll be there waiting when you’re ready.
I’m never quite sure if that analogy is comforting or creepy, but hey. It is what it is.
But, the last person I said that to is past retirement age and reminded me, not all of us have that much time. And they’re right. Not to mention, none of us is guaranteed tomorrow.
Only you can decide if goofing off and getting more downtime is worth giving up your writing time today. Maybe you’re having an off-day. Maybe you’re stuck in your writing and letting your brain try and process in the background without forcing it too hard, maybe you’re tired and brain-friend and don’t want your writing to look as coherent as a cold-medication-inspired ramble.
But maybe, you’re just not focused on the end goal and you need to buckle down.
Look at your dreams, your goals, and the people who matter to you. Decide what you’d most regret not-doing — that you KNOW you want to do — and start your list of priorities there.